How to Have a Super-Intense Squirting Orgasm

Squirting, also known as ‘female ejaculation,’ isn’t necessarily what you see in porn. Female ejaculate is when the urethral sponge (G-spot or Skene’s gland) becomes highly aroused and fills up with fluid. The fluid inside the urethral sponge that leaves the body is what’s called squirting.

The butterfly sex position is great for making a woman ejaculate as the upward thrust of your penis comes in direct contact with her G-spot stimulating the Skene’s gland. Before you follow the steps so you know how to make a girl squirt, it’s important to accept she may not be able to squirt. How to squirt for a woman can come with a lot of internal and external expectations and cause her to be disappointed if she doesn’t. Dr. Wendasha Jenkins Hall is an educator, speaker, and consultant who provides a fresh, shameless take on sex and relationships.

I believe that every woman can learn to squirt assuming she has the necessary physical attributes. That is, a functioning bladder, Skene’s glands, and urethra. Squirting fluid is a combination of urine and fluid from the Skene’s glands which is ejected—often forcefully—from the urethra. Female ejaculation is only fluid from the Skene’s glands and it’s often ejected less forcefully, in a trickle or drip. Oh, and by the way, squirting is also different from female ejaculation. I’m here to tell you that while squirting fluids do contain urine, it’s not the same as urination.

The Jockey position is great for those women who prefer to let their partner take over and do most of the work. Your partner can run the head of their penis all along the front wall of your vagina (including your G Spot) with each thrust. Of course, your partner can change the angle they hit your G Spot like in the illustration below (although some women may find this angle too intense).

Everyone’s body is different and responds differently to the same positions, tips and techniques. As with all the techniques in this squirting guide, experiment with these two to see which you prefer. Let’s jump straight in, with the basic technique for squirting during sex. Squirting during sex requires a caring and understanding partner with whom you have great sexual communication, along with the right techniques. Some women enjoy the sensation how to squirt during sex, while others don’t. If you feel any pain or discomfort while juicing your G Spot, then avoid it.